Are leaders born or made?

This is one of the most asked questions about leadership.

There has been many studies conducted in this area with most research by psychologists concluding that on the whole Leaders are ‘mostly made.’ The studies generally conclude that leadership is about one third nature and two thirds made or developed.

The ability to effectively lead, motivate and direct a group of people requires a very complex set of skills, which are mostly acquired through experiences and self-development.


Mentoring, Coaching and Leadership
Coaching and mentoring  can play a significant role in developing leadership skills and qualities in individuals. Effective coaching and mentoring relationships provide a platform for aspiring leaders to learn from experienced leaders; to receive guidance, and develop important attributes that are crucial for effective leadership. Here’s how coaching and mentoring can contribute to leadership development:

  1. Knowledge Transfer: Coaching and mentoring allows aspiring leaders to tap into the knowledge, experience, and insights of more seasoned leaders. Mentors can share practical wisdom, real-world examples, and lessons learned from their own leadership journeys. This knowledge transfer helps mentees gain a broader perspective on various leadership challenges and how to navigate them.
  2. Skill Enhancement: Leadership involves a diverse set of skills, including communication, decision-making, problem-solving, emotional intelligence, and many more. Mentors and coaches can provide targeted guidance and resources to help mentees/coachees improve these skills. Through regular interactions and feedback, mentees/coachees  can refine their abilities and become more effective leaders.
  3. Confidence Building: A mentor or coache’s encouragement and belief in a mentee/coachee’s potential can boost their confidence. As mentees/coachees receive constructive feedback and witness their growth over time, they gain the confidence to step into leadership roles and take on greater responsibilities.
  4. Networking and Exposure: Mentoring often includes introductions to the mentor’s professional network. This exposure allows mentees to connect with influential individuals, expand their knowledge base, and gain insights from diverse perspectives. Networking is a crucial aspect of leadership, and mentors can help mentees establish valuable connections.
  5. Personalised Development Plans: A mentor or coach can help mentees/coachee’s identify their strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement. Together, they can create personalised development plans that focus on enhancing leadership competencies.
  6. Role Modelling: Mentors serve as role models for aspiring leaders. By observing their mentor’s behaviour, decision-making processes, and ethical standards, mentees can learn about the qualities that make effective leaders. This role modelling can shape the mentees’ own leadership style and approach.
  7. Navigating Challenges: Leadership often involves navigating complex situations and challenges. Mentors and coaches can provide guidance on how to handle tough decisions, manage conflicts, and maintain resilience in the face of adversity. Learning from a mentor’s experiences can prepare mentees to handle similar situations more effectively.
  8. Continuous Learning: Leadership is an ongoing journey that requires continuous learning and adaptation. Coaching and mentoring relationships provide a platform for mentees/coachees to engage in reflective discussions, seek advice, and stay updated on industry trends. This commitment to lifelong learning is essential for successful leadership.
  9. Feedback and Accountability: Mentors and coaches offer valuable feedback on performance, behaviours, and decisions. This feedback helps mentees/coachees  identify areas for improvement and make necessary adjustments. Moreover, mentors and coaches can hold mentees/coachees accountable for their goals and commitments, ensuring they stay on track with their leadership development plans.
  10. Support and Encouragement: Leadership roles can be demanding and at times isolating. Having a mentor or coach to lean on for support, encouragement, and guidance can make a significant difference in a  leadership journey. The mentor or coach’s presence can provide a sense of reassurance and motivation during challenging times.


In conclusion, coaching and mentoring provides a nurturing environment for leadership development by offering knowledge, skills, confidence, networking opportunities, personalised guidance, and emotional support. Through these interactions, mentees/coachees can cultivate the qualities and capabilities necessary to become effective and impactful leaders.

If you would be interested in supporting a future leader in developing their leadership skills why not sign up as a mentor on our platform?

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NAHT’s Mentoring Scheme

A leader’s career can be a long, winding road, so we want to support this community the best way we can. One such way is by facilitating contact between leaders at various stages of their career allowing them to share best practice and invaluable guidance. By working together and tapping into all this knowledge we can make education the best it can be.

This platform provides a space for school leaders to share and gain knowledge that will benefit those starting their leadership journey as well as seasoned leaders.

For mentees, it’s a great way to build on areas that you’re less familiar with or that are completely new to you, and in turn build a strong working mentor relationship that’ll inspire you. For mentors, it’s a chance to give back and help strengthen the profession by sharing your experience and knowledge.

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